Sometimes when we remain in a negative or toxic situation longer than we should, it becomes a new N O R M A L. You know you should get out of it. Your loved ones tell you to remove yourself but you can't. You accept it for what it is and it becomes just that.....your "new normal". It's easier to stay in it than to start all over. You have to move mountains to get yourself to leave that situation that does not serve you. Until you move that mountain, you will never know you are self destructing and wasting time to live a precious deserving life. Yes, it's hard, it's painful, it's agonizing. But you only have one life. You deserve more. You deserve a better normal for yourself. So take that leap. Move that mountain. It will be the best decision you ever made.